Man Up

Women like it when you’re nice and sensitive and vulnerable, but on a regular basis, you need to show your manhood. (That IS NOT what I meant). Doesn’t mean you need to become an asshole, insensitive, aggressive or sexist. It just means that once in a while, you need to take charge, be decisive, fight for what you believe in. Hopefully, you’re fighting someone OTHER than her, as long as it’s a fight that needs fighting. Defending someone who’s helpless, battling an injustice or an unfair situation, or even just taking action in a situation. Don’t be the guy who whines, the guy who complains and does nothing, or the guy who always always caves (especially to her.) Nothing destroys you faster in her eyes than her losing her respect for you. And never ever grovel.

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